Mr Common Sense
8/26/2009
9:07:22 AM | About your husband panicking. Here's my advice. Do your precautions but don't talk about it, just wash the clothes and stuff, don't scare your family, my wife and children don't have it, my kids did initially but it passed for them. They are already exposed, more than likely they wont get it, but I cannot promise that. You need to, unfortunately, almost suffer in silence, it's better for your family, trust me, I've been there. Keep the house hold as normal as you can. Tell your husband your starting to feel better (even if you aren't) and then work on things silently. Suppose for a moment it is mites, no use tearing your family apart over it. You can make it through this, the thing is not to panic, when you feel the crawling and biting (which might be all the time) just say to yourself, oh well, and move on, believe me, dwelling on it makes it worse, reading all the horid things on some of the scarier forms will make you far worse. Don't over the tox the house with all kinds of cleaning products. I guess I'm trying to say "calm down" somewhat, I've seen families ripped apart by this, I've seen moms have thier kids taken from them, the best thing is to realize you are not alone, there are a ton of folks going through this, and you have folks to talk to about it online without scaring or alarming your family. I hope that helps you somewhat? |
